Adakah saya terlalu sibuk dengan pelbagai kerenah anak2?
Adakah saya terlalu letih dengan pengurusan pelbagai hal-ehwal di rumah?
Perlukah saya pada motivasi bagi peningkatan penceria warna perkahwinan?
..Dan pelbagai persoalan....
Saya suri rumah sepenuh masa..bergelumang dengan apa saja cabaran yang bersangkut paut dengan gelaran suri rumah itu..sebagai ibu..sebagai isteri...(Mungkin sebagai anak tidak lagi..kerana kedua ibubapa telah pulang menyahut seruan Ilahi..saya bersyukur...)..
Pagi ini setelah merasa agak tenang dan beres dan tugas biasa..saya kembali menyusuri internet..saya mencari makanan rohani..sementelaah..saya tidak ade banyak pilihan untuk berdiskusi..rata2 jiran 2 bersebelahan ramai yang bekerja..kalau ade pun..mungkin kurang sesuai untuk saya tiba2 dtg mengetuk pintu jiran dan berbincang tentang makanan rohani...
Lalu saya singgah di blog Ustaz Hasrizal dan mencari artikel yg bersesuaian...menerusi artikel beliau yang bertajuk mengurus pemikiran tentang perkahwinan.
"Bagi pasangan yang berumahtangga, setahun dua yang pertama, biasanya indah dan ditambah lagi dengan kedatangan cahaya mata penyeri rumahtangga. Tetapi apabila masuk tahun ketiga dan keempat, hubungan suami isteri akan teruji. Mudah terjadi, suami mula mudah marah terhadap isteri. Manakala si isteri pula kerap tertekan dengan ‘warna sebenar suaminya’.Saya masih ingat kata-kata Profesor Abdullah al-Ahsan di UIA ketika mengulas tentang Romanticism, “kita selalu tidak rasional dan realistik semasa kita romantik!”. Mungkin di awal perkahwinan, romantik itu kuat mendominasi rumah tangga. Ketika itu suami fokus kepada isteri dan isteri pula fokus kepada suami. Tetapi ketika munculnya anak pertama, kedua-duanya beralih fokus kepada anak dan selepas muncul anak kedua, fokus itu perlu diubah suai lagi. Semasa itulah, rumahtangga lebih didominasi oleh tanggungjawab dan tugas. Seronok-seronok sudah berkurang sedikit. Tetapi ia adalah proses biasa.
Hubungan suami dan isteri boleh selamat dan terus memanjat usia matang pada tahun-tahun yang berikutnya. Selamat kerana proses itu berlaku di dalam perkahwinan, bukan di luar. Ini adalah kerana, perkahwinan sebenarnya menggabungjalinkan antara cinta, kasih sayang, tanggungjawab dan peranan. Ada hari air pasang, cinta memainkan peranan. Ada hari air surut, maka tanggungjawab dan kematangan pula mengambil tugas.
Saya pasti anda yang sedang melayari bahtera perkahwinan dan membaca akan tersenyum sambil mengangguk-angguk..Saya masih belajar..anda juge..
Dapatkan toolbar siaran ikim.fm di sini:...untuk di muat turun...
Dulu semasa radio kat ruangtamu masih berfungsi, selalu kami jadikan siaran ini sebagai loceng bangun pagi...
Habis ramadhan kelmarin, radio tiba-tiba senyap ( sebelum itu kilat sabung menyabung di luar..)..Innalillah...sudah saya utarakan pada Mr Mc Guyer..tapi beliau masih belum berkesempatan menerjah meneropong ape masalah.....
Lewat habis makan tengahari tiba-tiba rase hendak menjenguk faebook..dan..telah berjumpa dengan toolbar stesen radio ikim..
Jadi dengan berbesar hati ingin berkongsi dengan semua..Selamat mendengar!!
There weren't many playground offering this kind of swing..so when we found this one I said to my DH..let the boy try arr..see..if he like or not...and he did..(Location: Late parents' house at Gombak).
This pic was taken in June 2009..only now I could locate the video....( I am still learning with all this multimedia thing...)
Sebagai kenang-kenangan...and please excuse the background sound..I think it was his's ayah....( jgn marah yang...ur boy need ur sound to make him feel..that the world is fun..full of excitement...)...Ohh....I so love his cute little smile...he rarely smile though..and some say..this one he takes after his daddy..;D...
And to KMoon and KMas..you'll surely miss him...tapi tak pe...school holiday lagi seminggu...by all means....take over some of my duties..by all means...yeay the nest shall be full again..lai.lai..lai..
p/s: I am in jovial mood...lallla..llaa...so everyone in the house adore me...as if I am celebrity..but when mama is in a-not-so-nice-mood...u now lah...but still I am a celebrity to my kids...not many huh!
While I am writing this, Mikhael is so sound asleep..overdose of few medicines...selsema, cirit birit and thrush in his mouth..get well soon sayang..be strong..be strong!
We had a splendid time last weekend watching the performance of various students and teachers of SSJB..which was called Malam Gala Kesenian SSJB 2009 : watch pics here..this year's theme was : Khazanah WarisanBudaya Bangsa....( jadinya segala gerak tari, susunan musik, lakunan pentas...termasuk juga pameran seni visual..berlandaskan tema tersebut..so no MJ's beat it or Billie Jean alike...like they did during the Form 3's Produksi PMR last July...shian sape2 yang minat MJ).
I had missed taking photos...(ape da...last minute..kamera rosak..ish!ish!)....
Even my DH had missed capturing some good moments of our dear Moon...with his hp//like he always did ( Shian ..ayah..lullabying little Mikhael...three quarter of the show...and mama was given the chance to sit and relax..as ayah said..he had full view last year when mama was heavily pregnant with m5...)
And we had not expected our Moon to be on stage...as she had called previous day...
Moon: :Mama,kita tak berlakun...belakang tabir saje...tapi jgn lupa ma, dtg awal..takut tak dak tempat duduk.."
Ma: Ok..tak pe lah...kitorang dtg..ape lagi event?
Moon: Ade anugerah untuk seni gak?
Mama : Kakak?
Moon:..he...he..surprise..surprise..
But upon opening, there she was..waving to everybody...and of coz...with her size...so noticable la...and I cdn't help but smile...I think I miss her so much..that a glimpse of her..caught my eyesight..well talk about separation...
The whole show was a superb..I admire the 1Malaysian dance performed by those students majoring in Seni tari..The drama was gorgeous...( dan sudah tentu di mana ade anakku..di situlah hatiku terpaut...) . 5 dramas were performed carrying own subjects, dances, music....and my kids love the one with dragon....Background music was marvelous ..Well they've got the talent..after all the hard work and effort..collaboration between the students and the teachers as well...A few minor technical error like microphone etc..but never mind...cheers and big applause to everybody who had made the show,direct and indirectly..
Being one of the emcees..my Moon has her voice to offer too...when one of the mics has problem..mcm2..sampai serak2 suare!..
All in all, I must say..this is the beginning of something big...remembering in my old time days...where in the scondary school..concerts etc..were delivered by us...we had few talents..tapi setakat itu sajelah..but here in Sekolah Seni..skill are sharpened and the results are through the show..I love the determination, the hard work..the discipline of each individual...Oh..And Bravo to the directors, dance choreographer, stage manager, music arrangement, wardrobe..etc....
Hang on there, dear...you need all these habits to perform out there in the real world..in the office...or in any organization that you all shall join after finishing ur school...
bukan senang nak jadi senang..
Now I understand..why my daughter has many grievances...of her tiredness...of her fatigue...as well as to balance with her academics..not forgetting her duties as servant to Allah too..O Allah, please give everybody strength...
Awards are presented to all 'A's scorer of academic for each tingkatan and also best in the four majors ( seni visual, seni tari, seni musik dan seni teater ) for each tingkatan...
And the awards presenter include, the vvip from Jabatan Pelajaran Johor dan Kementerian Pelajaran Malaysia Bahagian Sukan Dan Seni...Also famous actress Pn Rosnah Johari and actor (who was also my ex-teacher/part timer as guru drama in my former school) Encik Jalil Hamid...and En Jalil's son had won best Seri lakun for form 2...owh!...bestnyee...( ye lah..ke mana tumpahnya kuah kalu tak ke nasi...)
What about my daughter?...A candidate for her major...Anugerah Seri Lakon Pentas..but her friend had won it..he..he..Mama tau...mama tau siape dia..
And we have the teachers performing as well...(eemmmm..sebab itu lah anak muridnya cam tu...cikgu2nya pun sporting habis...)..amboi2...and I love best the part when everybody were on stage....One Malaysia...Malaysia Boleh!
Look forward for another show...(oo..oh..they are going to a resort. next week.to celebrate the winning of real academic..awards..give away..etc..emm..this one parents are not welcome...sob! sob!..)
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And on that very night also, A*stro had live telecast of M*lam Sehati Bedansa... theme- Special tribute to Sudirman with a touch of 1Malaysian dance as well....
My admiration towards late Sudirman...has brought me to love all his songs...especially those old where I grew up listening to..
Amongst the song I like..( well too many to write down actually...) is Bila Hati terpikat...and I am sharing this below video..performed by Didie and her partner..a superb energy!..a great dance..for a great song!..and the commentator was sharp and honest!
Its November of the year again...kids' school are finishing..and few things creep into my mind...hang on there...why worry...
And like every where, tv and radio for example....showing the matters about Haj...Mecca...and those going..hopes for those who are going to go....
My DH is so keen lately on watching all documentaries ....
"WE should pray...for Allah's Mercy..for best health and 'rezeki'...make it easy for us and those wishing to go..."
And suddenly this Raihan's song attracts my attention so much so that I can't resist to share it in my blog:
Wishing all my blogger friends out there..in fact everybody who's going to Mecca this year...insy'a'Allah...Haji Yang Mabrur..Bon Vovage..dan Kenang Kami Dalam Doa Kalian...
