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DAri DAto Muhammad Zakaria via Fb, Puan Mazlita: Buku saya:
1. MENANGANI ANAK BERMASALAH
2. PETUA MENDIDIK ANAK MENJADI INSAN POSITIF
3. DUHAI ANAKKU SAYANG.
4. MENJADI PELAJAR SEKOLAH MENENGAH CEMERLANG.
5. TEKNIK BELAJAR BERKESAN NUR AMALINA
6. KELUARKAN SINGA DARIPADA DIRI ANDA
7. RAHSIA MINDA HEBAT
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New year with Rabbit and hopes everywhere...

Happy New year - Rabbit year this year!!!!!! Thx for neighbour and those who gave us free mandarine orange..yummyy..even my kids who caught flu ( seem to be berjangkit..and poor baby, belum sembuh lagi!), are recovering..yes!!...plenty of vitamin c..besides swollowing up S*ott EMulsion...Mikhael prefers it yesterday...sigh..It was quite a task to feed him w any medicines nowdays..so playfull..I wonder, whom does he takes after

So what do you plan to do?...For us, lazying around, accompanying each other..the last family vacation we had was in 2008..In fact all of us had been longing for another vacation..funny , nobody dares to speak to their ayah..as the best ayah wd say is Air Terjun Serendah..or Pantai Sepang..eemm..so tak mengujakan langsung!

While the boss shall go back to his homettown for his normal weekly routine.Ayah said, he had to do some electricity things back at Sepang...and none of the kids seem to be bother to follow..SO mama has to stock up a few if not plenty of finished, or semi finished food...( Ye lor....Nanti tak ade keleta..macamana mau peligi beli balang2.....ayooo..and I have to feed my 5 youngsters....who cd volunteer then!!)...Eemm...It wd be nice to be pampered with someone's home cooking food...Arr..forget it...DO not bother to be kept busy in kitchen lah huh..prepare something simple..and chicken soup with everything on earth in it will do...Nobody are allowed to complain...

Funny, when I asked my children, what shall I cook ? They wd say "Ape2 lah Mama, asalkan kenyang!"...But, what is ape2?..grr...

Okay, mama shall cook and u all gals..pls tidy up  my kitchen..and cakes are dues...any one? any helper?..Cakes are tiring these days..SO, quick response to red budget, is to update my resume, pack and go,wish me real luck everyone!!..eemm..I HATES JOB INTERVIEW..I REALLY DO!

Err..orr...emm....its tea time...The lazy of me , has caught me with steaming up  a frozen 'kue bakar' and 'kacang merah Pau'...and I am having my evening nescafee just yet..bye!! And family time again...Cherrioooo!!!

p/s: And when there is only one single parent here, team work among the family members is vital!..if not, mama punya migraine akan menjadi2...oops..but hey, this few days, there were times, I wd feel dizzy, imbalance,just for few seconds....eeeeuwww..whats that!!!Oh God! Pls spare me from whatever mishaps...I need best health and  energy and joy especially!!

Where is the other?

How many of people out there like me , would happilly agreed to A LONG DISTANCE relationship?

Especially when one is taking about taking the sole responsibility of upbringing the youngsters?..

Tiring..

Patience is testing. How long?

When I mentioned about the youngsters of mine, it is simply inaccurate...by saying..or be patient, have patient..no..cannot ma....

Kids are growing up, cannot buy back the time lost of not watching how do they grow up, how do they face the many challenges of a teenager....( even toddler comes with their packages..), how do u motivate them, how do you discipline them...how do you love, listen and be gentle....and at the same time assertive and be a friend to them..

Oh oh..I cd feel the world is spinning!!!

People come into your life for a reason

Ok.I know..SOme might have heard or read this somewhere..but today I feel like sharing it again.. (woiitt!!..excuse me ~ ciplak and copy cat!!!:DD)

PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON

 People come into your life for a reason, a season or a

lifetime.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that

person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a

need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a

difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you

physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a

godsend and

they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then,

without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,

this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an

end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act

up and force you to take a stand.

 What we must realize is that our need has been met, our

desire

fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been

answered and now it is time to move on.

 

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your

turn has

come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace

or

make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done.

  They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it,

it is real.

But only for a season

 LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you

must

build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job

is to

accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned

to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is

said that love

is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

 

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or are a lifetime.

Omg..Jan 2011 is ending..

And I am still no near to the execution of this new year's resolution..so how?..so how?..

Later in deep thinking and praying mode: I pray..Oh Allah My Almighty, let me accept the things I cannot change, let me have the courage to change what I can, and pls Lord, let me have the wisdom to know the difference.

Is changing so hard?...One thing for sure...while many other things are considerably constant but change is not!

I want to lead a happy life..just like others..with few life's hiccups...that will do..

But for me to be happy, I must ensure that my loved ones are happy too...

Kids are happy, I am happy!!

And listening to oldies seems to be music to my ears....besides rukyah etc..

ANd I'll be back...wishing happiness to all readers...

.See u when I see u.. oopss..is there such a phrase?.But my friend says there is such a phrase..in Ocean 13 the movie...owwaaa.....must watch then?
But when?

Teguhkan masjidku ~ Alhidayah TV3 : 7 jan 2011 & 14 Jan 2011)- Ustazah Norafizah Musa

Ustazah membuka bicara dengan mengatakan setiap kita yang menempuhi alam rumahtangga inginkan ianya bahagia dan berkekalan hingga akhir hayat. Namun kadang2 ade di antara yang akan ditimpa musibah, jesturu masjid yang dibina, roboh di tengah jalan..Penceraian adalah suatu perkara yang halal tetapi paling dibenci oleh Allah.

Pada zaman rasulullah, ade isteri kepada sahabat baginda yang datang dan mengadu kepada rasulullah lalu inginkan perceraian.

Tanya RAsullullah : kenapa kamu ingin bercerai? Lalu dijawabnya :" Kerana saya takut akan menderhaka kepada suami saya. Rasullullah bertanya lagi: Sanggupkah kamu memulangkan kebun/tanaman yang telah ditanam oleh suamimu? dan perempuan itu menjawab: "Ya rasulullah, saya sanggup. DAn pasangan itu pun bercerai.

Apakah implikasi dan persiapan emosi yang perlu ade pada setiap wanita khasnya yang melalui proses penceraian:-

1. Ambil iktibar dari kisah Ummu Salamah dan dekatkan diri dengan Allah serta banyak bersabar. jgn gusar tentang masalah yang akan dihadapi kerana Allah telah berjanji dalam surah Annisa Ayat 130 :" Jika kedua laki-isteri bercerai, maka Allah akan memberi kesenangan bagi masing2nya dengan kurnianya. Allah lapang (kurniaNya) lagi maha bijaksana.
2. Bina kekuatan hati dengan merapatkan silaturrahim di antara saudaar, jiran tetangga dan sahabat. Sessunggunhnya kemanisan dari ukhwah sedemikian akan memberi kekuatan.
3. Berdoa dan berdoa pada Allah agar digantikan dengan yang lebih baik.

Dan apabila kedua ibubapa bercerai, anak2 yang terdahulunya akan terkesan. Jesteru kita hendaklah memastikan anak2 faham dan tidak terbiar.Anak-anak merupakan amanah Ilahi . 

Hadis Nabi: Barangsiapa yang dikurniakan anak oleh Allah swt dan dia sayang dan jaga mereka, insya'allah Allahh akan selamatkan mereka dari api neraka.

1. Penceraian tidak akan pernah menafikan kewajipan ibubapa terhadap anak2 mereka.jadi perana ibubapa dalam mendidik dan memberi nafkah mesti diteruskan
2. Anak2 harus difahamkan, sekiranya berlaku apa2 dianata ibubapa mereka, anak2 hendaklah tahu bahawa kasih sayang ibubapa terhadap mereka tidak pernah hilang.
3. beritahu dengan jelas punca sebab ibubapa bercerai bukan kerana anak2 tersebut tetapi oleh sebab ayah dan ibu tidak boleh bersama lagi
4. Sekiranya anak tinggal degn ibu, ibu mendidik anak, maka tanggungjawab bapa untuk memberi nafkah/belanja mesti ditunaikan
5. Jangan sesekali mencemuh pasangan masing dihadapan anak2. Tunjukkna bahawa kita, adalah seorang ibu, yang menghargai ayah kepada anak2 kita.
6. Mohon anak2 berdoa agar ibu atau bapa kembali ke pangkal jalan ( sekiranya tersasar sebelum ini)
7. Sentiasa pelihara emosi anak2 agar mereka tetap membesar dengan sejahtera.
8. Sebelum berpisah, bawa anak2 ke tempat baru yang bakal didiami mereka sekiranya mereka di bawa ibu atau bapa.

Wallahulam..sedikit sebanyak perkongsian. Ampun maaf dii atas khilaf.

old song brings old memories

Simple but meaningful

I would love to have this one sentence written and printed and portrayed in my mind over and over again...and in my writings especially.....and want to believe that I cd force myself to have it practiced :

Speak Kindly, Care deeply, Love generously

Those words were uttered by Prof Madya DrMuhaya....and I love them.. I love to believe that those shall have positive impact on my state of mind..that every each and one of us shall have our own fair share of test..and that we should live in harmony and create positive ambiance...

Happy new year ? 

Life hiccups

You may experience life hiccups along your journey...

It's a test

How do you manage your inner turmoil then?

I want to believe that every cloud has a silver lining..I would love to hang on...I would love to..

S.O.S!!

Ujian dan kesabaran

"Dan kami pasti akan uji kamu dgn sedikit rasa takut, rasa lapar, kekurangan harta, kekurangan nyawa dan buah2an. Dan berilah berita gembira kepada orang sabar" Surah AlBaqarah ~155..



" Iaitu mereka yang apabila ditimpa musibah mereka mengatakan : kita milik Allah dan kepadaNya kita pasti kembali " AlBaqarah ~156


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